What is ur defintion on tis word "Friend" ?
To me, it means it's someone who share the same interest, same goals and same feeling for each other, most important is trustworthy.
Yet, in the Friendship World, there is no such things as wrong and right. The only difference is their perception about the word "Friendship". So even they betray us or hurt us once, is nt thier fault, we can't blame them cuz from the beginning our perception bout the word "Friendship" is totaly different.
There was a story like this. 10 years ago, there come a small kid named Christopher tat stayed in foreign countries for almost 9 to 10 years. When he come bak to him own countries, he get to noe a group of new friends in his new secondary skool. Among those friends, he get along wif one very well, which his name is Max. From transition classes until Form 5 classess, they were in the same classes for 6 years. Although it is juz a short short 6 years, but it means a lots to the kid. This is because tat boi was his 1st true friends since he come bak to his own mother countries.
After Form5, many of his friends went to chase for thier dreams, goals for thier future.The kid and his bestfriends share the same goals,dreams and swore to achieve together. But after a few months, Max leave the college tat they study together without letting Christopher noe. During tat period, the kid owes phone him to ask why but he nvr got in contact wif tat fren anymore. A few weeks later, the college management inform us tat this fren of the kid has terminate his courses in this college. There was no ending for this friendship ......
Mayb most of the ppl whose have read through this stories might think tat the kid is relying too much to his frens. But the fact is nt tat but it is he devort too much into this friendship and the ending he get was like tat ..... At tat time, he was veri angry wif his fren, eventhough the fren got phone him after a long time, he nvr answer any of tat frens calls again. After a year, he realize it is nt his fren fault, juz the difference of the perception on the word "Friendship" and tat they are nt suitable for each other.
But he still continue to believe in "Friendship" tat he will find friends tat share the same perception of the word "Friendship" ......
Well ..... So what ur ppl feeling after readin this short stories ?
Well ..... To me, i cried but i agree
To me, it means it's someone who share the same interest, same goals and same feeling for each other, most important is trustworthy.
Yet, in the Friendship World, there is no such things as wrong and right. The only difference is their perception about the word "Friendship". So even they betray us or hurt us once, is nt thier fault, we can't blame them cuz from the beginning our perception bout the word "Friendship" is totaly different.
There was a story like this. 10 years ago, there come a small kid named Christopher tat stayed in foreign countries for almost 9 to 10 years. When he come bak to him own countries, he get to noe a group of new friends in his new secondary skool. Among those friends, he get along wif one very well, which his name is Max. From transition classes until Form 5 classess, they were in the same classes for 6 years. Although it is juz a short short 6 years, but it means a lots to the kid. This is because tat boi was his 1st true friends since he come bak to his own mother countries.
After Form5, many of his friends went to chase for thier dreams, goals for thier future.The kid and his bestfriends share the same goals,dreams and swore to achieve together. But after a few months, Max leave the college tat they study together without letting Christopher noe. During tat period, the kid owes phone him to ask why but he nvr got in contact wif tat fren anymore. A few weeks later, the college management inform us tat this fren of the kid has terminate his courses in this college. There was no ending for this friendship ......
Mayb most of the ppl whose have read through this stories might think tat the kid is relying too much to his frens. But the fact is nt tat but it is he devort too much into this friendship and the ending he get was like tat ..... At tat time, he was veri angry wif his fren, eventhough the fren got phone him after a long time, he nvr answer any of tat frens calls again. After a year, he realize it is nt his fren fault, juz the difference of the perception on the word "Friendship" and tat they are nt suitable for each other.
But he still continue to believe in "Friendship" tat he will find friends tat share the same perception of the word "Friendship" ......
Well ..... So what ur ppl feeling after readin this short stories ?
Well ..... To me, i cried but i agree
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Sob....sob....i wan cry...liaw.....sob sob..why don wan answer the phone.....so sasa 1 de bo...at least they are not enemy ma...or din not sabotouch ma...like chinse culture say duo yi ge peng yu shao yi ge di ren...hahaha..my chinese is not so good....so don laugh at me..if not...sue you ah...hahaha..jk de jk de...well..for me friend mean peng yu..frenz...kawan..tomodachi..peng Yu (fu chao)...pang yao(cantonese)...and vice versa..hehe.then ship mean is kapal...chuan(ship)..xuen(cantonese)..and others...when both the words combine together is frenzship mean is kawan+kapal= kawankapal..also is kawan de kapal..meaning is friend plus ship..in full meaning is ur friends stay together with u in one ship...which mean have the same object and mission...unfortunately the ship will shipwreck 1 why i say like tis is because tat ships is made by wood 1 de ma..after few year sure shipwreck de ma...not correct meh....hahaha..if u use sampan then not need say 1 de lah...sure broke 1....coz got sea monster ma just like pokemon also got la...if not like deep blue sea lo..got shark 1 de lo.......ok lah...be serious liaw....im very sorry ah..above de is fei hua...lai de...cuz too bored liaw..so wan write long long 1 for u...well according to the law of ceo...frenz mean a person who can share their personal secret like boy or girl de things..but most important is communicate and study...communicate is important for everyone if not ur mouth use for eat food only meh...hahaha...beside that friend also can be good or bad..example like if u meet a bad frenz which ask u wan drug or not..im sure u will say NO...if u say YES then u mental go problem liaw..need go to check...if u meet a good frenz...like...my cat and dog is best frenz lo..they wont bite each other 1 de...just an example bah..human is also counted as animal ma..according to scientist...cuz human have more IQ..so know as the most brilliant animal....im sure of it u have listen what secondary have taught u..if not go back again and study bah....if the word friend and ship combine is like a interpersonal relationships haha..dunno how to say friendship ah....only san say you yi.............Ermmmmmmmmmmmmm YOU YI BANZAI.....YOU YI WAN SHUI....hehehe...
well ...... depends on different ppl wif different view lookin at this story, mayb some haven't even gone through this kind of experience, tat why they can be more positive thinkin bout this, to me it is nt the matter of betray or nt lor, it's more like u believe in this kind of fren too much until u get u hurt urself. Of course, u can't blame the one tat hurt u cuz the definition of the word "Friendship" is different, to u, it may be an important aspect in ur life but to him, it mayb juz onli a ship to help him reach his goals by makin use of u ......
mmmmmmmmmm....ceo, ur comment too mani fei hua lah...u thought ppl duno wat is friendship meh...well...after reading dat story, i felt pity 4 dat boy...for me his frenz is nt gud...just like " guo he chai qiao(chinese)"...although their time 4 been frenz long, bt there is no meaning at all...just like " 3 years don't hav 3 months gud" in friendship...erm...well, just like u said, we can't blame them 4 what they had done on us...oni can say we too trust in them...trust till we can't differentiate among false and true friendship...y i say like dat, bcos false friendship oni show concern in some times...maybe only in some matter dat is not important...different from true friendship...just say an example, if one day u feel like wan 2 go out to take a break, u call up ur frenz and said dat u r in bad mood...they wont ask u more, they will come out 2gether wid u cos they reli concern about u...do tis action show in false friendship?...maybe some, but 4 me it never shown up...what i can see and feel is true friendship willing to do so...cos they use "true heart" to feel and understand their friends in any conditions......
i wan add some more things...true frenz always take care and worry their friends more than him/herself...when problems come, they are the 1st person to stand up and volunteer to give out help...when they get into private problem, they won't let their friends know cos they don't wan them to worry...
Lol...i agree wat r33n say erm..if i got problem i also who told anybody...coz i don wan to them worry...plus ah if let them no..may be will hai dao(involved) them...just may be only...haha...true frenz is also volunteer come out to help whenever they have problem....or somethings wan to share...but for me ah...may be will hide it alone..and solo by myself....if if really cant handle liaw....for me ah..erm..i think also wont tell any1 cuz is dunno how to tell them the problem tat u have....if they don wan help then is useless to tell...because of tat we must find the true frenz which will easily see through u got problem and they will volunteer take out their warm hand to help....just like wat r33n say 1 de...hahahahaha...
everyone got thier own point of view, tat all i can say about.
i quite agree wif this little couples comment, hahas
yet, a true fren nt reli can seen all things happen around veri details but they will do anything tat is within thier power and nt lettin the another one noe.
sometimes this kinds of feelin appears to be more often found from the boi. Mayb cuz boi got a feelin tat protectin the galz is thier nature job.
A veri funny things is this kinds of feelins owes make ppl misunderstood and thought tat boi like the galz, but actually the boi only juz showin his concern within his power.
we are humans, ain't superman ...... but i think as a boi, cherish thier beloved one is much more important than anything.
Because when the times come, there no nid a single word, juz feelin will tell us tat he/she is the one ...... mayb someppl will think this is juz a fake feelin
But u nvr noe until u found urs ...
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Feelings is Everything to Me
It's giv me everything tat i nid,
im lonely but i hunger for the feelin ......
I assure tat all single's one sure have the same feelin like me.
Chase for urs Feeling ......
yeah...u r right bruce...
a 5 years frenz nt totally can understand wat u think about, which different from a few months frenz dat u made...
erm...oni can say, true frenz is nt looking at hw many years dat we hav been frenz, bt is base on the understanding within each other...
lol....im think i like cap su 1 de....hahahaha...i agree wat u all have say...of cos human got feeling 1 de....cuz is a human being..hehehe...even me also got feeling la....somehow they call me pig also like tat....y they call me pig because erm....well according to mine six sense cuz i have open up The Pig farm Sdn.Bhd...plus i see pig so they just call me pig...but for me is normal 1 de......hehehe....pig only ma...i eat pig 1 de oooo....well at SBI(read from the backword).....actually got many pig 1 de...not need say all lollipop and safibru de group also know liaw 1 de....erm...well move to the topic....i may be agree wat r33n say cuz erm....may be i also got frenz tat does not really understand me so much...erm can read they cant read my mind..hehehe..cuz im CEO so is different 1 de...i somehow can read ppl mind de...plus Six sense plus feeling....of cuz u all is more understand me more better then my primary and some de sec de frenz..hehehehe........somehow feeling may be can fake...like...they borrow ur things then forget to return to u..they just remember u got the things so they get close with u after borrow then forget liaw.....haizz...like my game ah...4 disc become 3 disc...others like borrow money then no return..but i already xi guan liaw...hahahaha...旧的不去，新的不来。WARNING THIS DOES NOT MEAN GIRLFRIEND OR FAMILY....DON SIMPLY LAI.....ME LOYAL 1 DE......hahaha....i mean item or things...only.......and vice versa...Finally i wan to say YOU YI WAN SUI TO MY FRENZ.....SAFIBRU AND LOLLIPOP.....
well ... there nuthin much i can say, i can onli say tat im veri veri lucky enuf to get noe u guys each other ...
hahas ... so scare doraemon angry of u ah ? jajaja, cherish tis gf oh, cuz she same same dan chun like u, hahas
lol..of cos i will cherish r33n r33n 1 de...because i love her ma..hahaha...and it also is a man job to protect the girl tat we like..even wan sacrifice somethings..hahaha....Erm i also glad tat i have meet u all...if can meet earlier is more better for me plus if i have the power to stop the time..i sure will stop it....when i was form 2 or 3 i tot the time is moving slow..but after i graduate form 5 i think the time is moving more faster then i expect .....all agree 1 de...cuz who wan getting old leh...hahahaha...Lastly tat im wan to say tonight is tat im glad tat meet u all again escpeialy is doreen...hahahaha...(DON JEALOUS)..i also happy tat meet u all 1 de lah.....wan me list down the name ma..hehehe...Bruce,5-no,ah kiing,nee pig,ah ying,.......and my lovely R33n and many....hehehe...all let shout together bah..YOU YI BANZAI 友yi万sui...hahahaha
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welll, there is no much things i can say...just dat, i reli happy n "qing xing" i hav study 8 "BSI"...
the environment is totally different from my primary n secondary life...
i thought i won't meet any frenz after graduate, bt thanks god, nw i really do...
thanks u all, lollipop n safibru...thanks for been my frenz...i reli love u all...
im back let's continue the Friends Comment bah ..hehe....1st of all wat i wan to say de things already post by the previous comment...(read by urself bah)...hahaha...i cant think any comment wat can i write le....sob sob...~just passing by~
kekeke .... u noe by the way u list out the friends name like tat way got meaning de mah ... hahas
btw, i think friends relationship is quite simple and complicated at the same time, at tis moment u understand he'she , but at the next moment, mayb he/she is no more the person like u noe usually, ppl keen to changes often ... a person, a things or even time can easily affect a person, it goin to use ur EQ to deal wif all tis kind of problems ...
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